Embracing Your Parenting Style: Celebrating The Freedom Of Choice

Welcome to the amazing world of motherhood! As women, we are blessed with the incredible ability to nurture and care for our little ones. However, along with this blessing often comes unsolicited advice, societal pressure, and the weight of judgement. Today, I’m here to remind you that as a parent, you have the power to decide what is best for both you and your baby. Whether you choose to co-sleep or use a next to me crib, breastfeed or bottle feed, go back to work or stay at home, sleep train in your own way, or feeling confident in your postpartum body, remember that you are seen and heard. Let’s dive into the joy of celebrating the freedom of choice!

1. The Beauty Of Co-Sleeping

   One of my best friends said she was massively against co-sleeping.. and then she had a baby. It’s something I hear often from new parents. If you find comfort in having your baby snuggled up next to you during the night, rest assured that co-sleeping can be a wonderful option. Just remember to follow safety guidelines, such as using a firm mattress, removing pillows and heavy blankets, and ensuring a safe sleeping environment for your little one.

2. Embracing the Next To Me Crib

   On the other hand, if you prefer your baby sleep close by but in their own space, a next to me crib is perfect for you. It allows both of you to enjoy the benefits of proximity while granting your baby their own cozy spot. You can easily reach out and provide comfort to tend to their needs in the middle of the night, making it a win-win situation.

3. Breastfeeding and Bottle-Feeding: Your Choice, Your Journey

   The decision to breastfeed or bottle-feed your baby is deeply personal, and there is no right or wrong choice. Breastfeeding is an incredible bond-building experience, offering numerous benefits. However, if breastfeeding doesn’t work for you, bottle-feeding provides an equally nurturing way to feed and care for your little one. My mother was unable to breastfeed as she never produced any milk so I am a huge believer that what works for you and your family is best.

4. Going Back To Work: Finding Balance And Fulfilment

   Retiring to work after childbirth can evoke a mix of emotions which can be exacerbated by outside opinions. Whether you choose to continue your career or take time off to focus on your family, remember that your decision is valid. Embrace the opportunity to find balance that works for you and your baby. Seek support from your employer, explore flexible work options, and prioritise self-care to navigate this transition with confidence and grace.

5. Sleep Training Choices: Tailoring the Approach to Your Baby

   Sleep training is a personal choice that varies for every family. Whether you opt for a gentle approach, co-sleeping methods, or a more structured routine, trust your instincts and choose what aligns best with your parenting style. Remember, there is no one-size-fits-all solutions, and finding a sleep training method that resonates with you and your baby is key to establishing healthy sleep habits.

6. Postpartum Body Image: Embracing Your Journey Of Self-Love

   As your body undergoes incredible changes during and after pregnancy, it’s normal to experience fluctuating emotions about your postpartum body. Practice self-compassion, celebrate the strength and beauty that brought new life into the world, and embrace the journey of self-love., Surround yourself with positivity, focus on your well-being, and remember that you are a remarkable, resilient, and radiant mother, regardless of societal standards or expectations.

In this incredible journey of motherhood, it’s essential to celebrate the unique parenting styles that empower and nourish both you and your baby. Whether you're navigating the return to work, exploring sleep training choices, or fostering a positive postpartum body image, remember that you are the architect of your parenting journey. Embrace your choices, trust your instincts, and find solace in knowing that you are supported, heard, and celebrated. Cheers to embracing your unique path, navigating the joys and challenges of motherhood, and honouring the freedom of choice that defines your remarkable journey.

Lots of love,

Your Family Photographer, Natalie x